that is a wonderful night
2009-Jul-28 - sleep temple seeks medical advice
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( 8) About " sleep temple seeks medical advice " Story ( 1928) Published originally number 18 of Vol. 4 of " language silk ", 1928, April 30
( 9) " very beautiful and good " number 6 of Vol. 6 in year of young etiology, 1930, October 16
( 10) Incomplete to take (1930, May) The same
( 11) Mother (1930, August 13) Original year " very beautiful and American " the 1st such as Vol. 7, 1930, January 16
( 12) Wall (1930, November 28) Published originally number 7 of Vol. 3 of " crescent "
( 13) The melancholy like a river ' 1931) Published originally number 12 of Vol. 3 of " crescent "
( 14) One army competent random notes ' One of January of 1932) Published originally number 1 of Vol. 4 of " crescent "
( 15) Mourn the will and rub gentlemen The same
( 16) Psychology used before and after stuffy medicine and feeling Published originally number 9 of Vol. 2 of " observe "
( 17) Come on Beijing write ' February of 1933) Published originally number 14 of Vol. 3 of " language silk ", 1933, April 1
( 18) Give up the dusk of the floor of making a guess and is published originally number 7 of Vol. 4 of " crescent ", 1933, June 1
( 19) Write Mr. Tian Han Published originally the 38th issue of " literature weekly magazine of Central Daily News " of 1935
( 20) Our inclination and attitude are published originally number 1 of Vol. 1 of " observe ", 1946, September 1
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2009-Jul-3 - The teacher
The teacher once says to me, she sees " war and peace " now, it is a little bit early perhaps. This book is very thick, I am in " the Cultural Revolution " Pleasant to the eye. To be frank, looked at that time, only knew the plot, scarcelied know what one has said.
I observe high Qian from primary school to this period junior middle school, some books have been read for several times repeatedly, for example " Dream of the Red Chamber ", "it is youthful song ", " midnight " watch more all over,exchange by impressions with me too during not reading, I feel her there are different ideas after reading each time. Rely on one's own eyes to understand at different ages, although can't try to get perfectly, but one's own feeling after all, the impression is deeper.
" Dream of the Red Chamber " has formed Red Chamber Studies, Red Chamber Studies is studied and done vigorously in these decades. Since study, prove that there are many questions not come to understand yet. So, I think, read the literary works, may not be certain to treat people and come to understand everything, and then tell you how to read this book.
Humanities and natural science are different, different from solving the mathematics question either. A mathematics question may have several kinds of solutions, but only there is a kind of answer. A lot of questions of people literature may have several kinds of solutions too, but may not be certain to have fixed, standard answers, but there is various " The statement " . It is the same too to read, let others tell you an answer after seeing, this really strangles people's ability of thinking independently.
Someone thinks the masterpiece is read in vain when being understood. I think, can not understand and can read too, the good literary works can have a trial test slowly, read in different periods in life, will produce different understanding and feeling. The present child is too suspicious when letting parents hold, the preaches of parents are very strenuous too, a lot of people say easily it is " only-child " Question caused. However, it is OK for some only-children! I think it is parents and understanding of education circle that have gone wrong. A lot of children " Non- sensible " Because there is not thought, is not crossed traditional culture, especially the edifying of the masterpiece, people wear ox's high horse is great but the thought is inmature. The child that exerted an uplifting influence on through long-term literature, will find out about the affairs of human life, intelligent, have emotion.
Some famous universities in U.S.A. are applying for outward show and inner thoughts and requiring examinees to write down the works read recently, and demand to write a gentle comment. Princeton University requires students to answer about all sorts of one's own hobbies, questions got used to, the following is the answers of question and high Qian.
Your favorite book - -" my Anthony Asia ";
Favorite music works - -(Russian descendants British pianist )" hospitable sonata " of Vladimir and Ash triumphant Nagy;
Like the thing done most - -Listen to while reading the piano music;
Favorite film - -" whether great nose feeling holy " ' France's classical tragicomedy );
Every day - -Since mid-night;
Favorite subject - -History;
Favorite newspaper column - -World news;
Two can display your adjective most - -"seek knowledge " ," the passionate one " .
Seen from one some films and televisions, have listened to some music, care about something, know what kind of person this is one. Someone says the great pain of the fee very while filling in the university to apply. In fact, if want to display oneself accurately, need only " say one " . Some student fill out, apply, university speak face to face the meeting of the whole family offered advice in the past, should speak something in research, shouldn't say any, because there is no idea at ordinary times, without enough accumulation, there is not thought that store, have to depend on " combined wisdom " temporarily Come to " make " .
Can find out a person from a person's hobby of reading, this has already been a common understanding of educational circles too. Some universities require examinees to list a booklist list that has ever read, having roughly had this student's outlines through this list, this is marks of the examination can't be substituted. |
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2009-Apr-15 - Meeting-place silence for a moment
Meeting-place silence for a moment, chief cough a sound channel: "Do not we have other methods? "
"Certainly have, that is that we find a clue to the puzzle that the murderer left by oneself. " The Qin song is very heavy and genuine.
"You keep in touch with the south of horse most, you know horse's thinking of analysing and explaining those puzzles of the south most, what inspiration do you have now? " The captain tries inquiring after.
"This group of figures, is very obviously figure and replacement of letter. Transform them letter, should CNFM, I English based on a weak economy, really understand what meaning these four representatives of letters are. "
The captain washes one of several young comrades in the team at once: "Several of you have gone to the college, English is certainly out of question, come over to ponder what meaning on earth these letters are for a while quickly. "
Those several university students reveal the signs of reluctance, they each, to drawing for quite a while on the note-book in front of oneself police, all shake the head in silence. The captain sighs, show the expression of hating iron could not turn into steel.
"I do not think perhaps these letters matter to follow English, they also include another password form. " Song Qin frown dish, " I have a premonition it will certainly very simple, but key whether we must find the key of solving a problem at first. "
Thinking of these four letters in the brain at this moment of the owner, at one time, became so quiet that you could hear a nutterfly at the meeting-place. |
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2009-Mar-5 - Hope everybody succeeds
Because Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces it makes you tired, because it makes you excessively worried to every thing.
Others cast a look at you obliquly, you are injured very much. You and opposite sex associate, the other side is hospitable and non- tall, you think you have no glamour, you are very in pain. Among a group of persons, some people are very outstanding, but you are unhonored, you and self-esteem are baffled. What is to be done? You may raise the high forehead and turn round to go, in fact heart is injured very much.
I have seen a lot of such young people, boys and girls all have, I often advise them, the self-esteem needn't be so allergic, needn't injure oneself like this. It is too high to injure one's own cost like this, we are totally unnecessary to see others' face living.
It is to work in others' appraisal to feel self-humiliation, the allergic syndrome of self-esteem just breaks out in others' appraisal too. We all live in everybody's relative appraisal, so, ignore some to the appraisal appropriately, a bit at will, a bit without worldly more desires.
Why? Do not deceive oneself, free oneself.
Because you are short of a little expenditure in this respect, a bit too much energy, the good psychology that a bit too many, you may have more creation, catch more chances. The result, you change one's own destiny slowly.
So, as to anyone, even if seem now it is a more superior, more successful person, watch out for the persecution of the allergic syndrome of this kind of self-respect too. Some people see to seem to have very steady psychology, others say a piece of anything can be born very much, however, somehow, he will be bewitched a certain period, the allergic syndrome of self-respect broke out on a question suddenly.
This you have, experience, ask " what people have I have " .
Some people you might say he wear well, he mind. You say he wears it almost, he does not mind. Because of any? Perhaps he is not allergic in this respect. But you say him to be moral standing bad, he very getting irritated. Even just say at will, but he is very allergic, reacts strongly, even reach the intensity of playing with the life.
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Often see this kind of situation in life.
So, everybody has one's own allergic places.
It is and not the rationality to study allergic rationality.
Don't let the allergic syndrome of self-respect torment oneself.
Brief summary
In this way, we say modern 12 general extraneous expense very.
We review it.
Talked four kinds of general inclination first:
The first, anxious to add anxious, modern " general mistaken idea very " .
Second, work with the healthy heart conflict, it is the modern " very general heart conflict " .
Third, and illness a frightened to produce one weighed down with anxieties by hypochondriasis, modern " general worry very " .
Fourth, there is no work of forcing of the sufficient interest, it is a modern " very general feeling a pain " .
This is four pieces of extraneous expense.
And then four surplus consumption:
First, the messy fevered computer that can not be turned off, after coming off duty, the head melon still rotates there, this is " lagging behind consumption " .
Second, does not have the Mid-autumn Festival to chop the filling for dumplings that celebrated the New Year, this is " advancing consumption " .
Third, all matters, big and small are blind to worry about, this is " filling the air consumption " .
Fourth, excessive tense and dangerous sense, this is " overstating consumption " .
These four consume four kinds of conflicts of adding, is eight kinds of extraneous expense.
It is four kinds of syndromes finally:
First, " worried syndrome of interpersonal relationships " . It is not suitable that it is dealt with that the person controlled by this kind of syndrome is often an organizational affiliation.
Second, " the hope persecutes syndrome " . At all times and in all lands, almost everybody can't avoid.
Third, " choose conflict syndrome " ,It has no one that in a dilemma.
Fourth, " allergic syndrome of self-esteem " . We say how take things philosophically relatively among life, take things philosophically relatively at interpersonal relationships, there are a lot of psychology and behavioral art here.
Talk about here today. I want to tell everybody next time, one is technology relaxed. How drill briefly, make oneself relax down. Meet more complicated thing, operate it, the psychology is a little better. This is technology. The second should be spoken, but the real intelligence of the interpersonal relationships. The third topic, what a creation attitude of entering talent's inspiration, enable oneself at work, while creating, no matter do to the editor, write the procedure, handle problem, enter the inspiration state.
These three topics, have an opportunity to exchange with everybody later.
Hope everybody succeeds,
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2009-Mar-5 - he relatively feels self-humiliation
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Every Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces excessive to value to self-esteem, feel self-humiliation psychology to be very much obvious, have inferiority complex.
For example, for example a person is not very good at in other things, then, he may pay special attention to one's own clothes. It is fine for me to work, education either high, appearance plain, what is to be done? I dress a bit better, so as to obtain others' respect. He is very sensitive to the clothes. At this moment, if make negative appraisal on his clothes, how timidly you dress!, he can not stand, he is very strong when knowing the response.
Why? Because he relatively feels self-humiliation.
Conversely, your conditions of various fields are good, even the sense of superiority is very strong, the clothes are dressed informally, you say my clothes are not good, he is free of this, he don't think that matter, his insensitivity.
Why? Because exactly because he is richer in various fields, does not feel self-humiliation, the self-esteem is not allergic.
Everybody want, understand self-esteem and it feels self-humiliation to be corresponding.
Some people's self-esteem is allergic, because the inferiority complex is strong.
For example, some people may belong to the winner in life. The real winner might not have taken the style instead now. Look, Bill? Gates might not wear all over the famous brand decorates shop front. That take style is often a false winner: Want a lot of dishes in the restaurant, have a lot left, and can't bale, consume in front of the stranger there is not marginning.
True winner wear casual often, usually bearing.
Why? Because he does not feel self-humiliation very much.
So, the self-esteem, with interrelating allergically.
Understand this one is beneficial.
It is not a bastard to feel self-humiliation, has not felt self-humiliation alone, there is no development.
A psychologist is called Adler, his individual character psychology is emphasized, the important factor that it is the human development to feel self-humiliation, it causes people's conduct, causes people's success. The psychology that one has not felt self-humiliation at all, will not work hard.
Such as a person being more poverty-stricken while as a child, grow up in the countryside, after to entering university in the city, finding the people around all richer than I, such a person is often more diligent. His desserts for a courageous performance, I study better than you, work more than you, people survived more successfully than you finally.
Overcome one's own terms of feeling self-humiliation those, feeling self-humiliation becomes motive force succeeding as you.
Do not overcome feeling self-humiliation, give oneself up as hopeless, will fail in life.
Feeling self-humiliation has such big strength, feeling self-humiliation will have very great psychological impacts on people.
Generally speaking, there are very few people without inferiority complex at all.
Live in superior family very while as a child, high official and noble lord nothing scarce, everybody coaxes him, this child is gone to the primary school to meet and send off by luxurious car, open the luxurious car after reaching university, may live in the best house while graduating from university. Such a person may not feel self-humiliation, but he may not have motive force, there was not achievement in life finally.
But feel self-humiliation may bring and give oneself up as hopeless. I nothing won't do, I do not have a good background, I do not have good parents, I do not have a good appearance, I have no money. It is on a show that others have money that is spent to get to the university, I do not have. Very worried, go downhill, decadent.
Then, there are a lot of transformations in our daily life to feel self-humiliation.
Inferiority complex very serious, can find positive transformation, can defeat, lead to the fact terms that feel self-humiliation, make oneself succeed, can't receive a kind of compensation, become the allergic syndrome of self-respect.
Everybody might not have so typical an allergic syndrome of self-respect, but the allergic syndrome of self-respect in various
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